It’s a Date

First and foremost I would like to apologize for my little vanishing act for the past two weeks. Sometimes professors just get out of hand with the amount of assignments they assign us; plus these extra long tests full of words I’ve stayed up all night trying to comprehend. In the end, I survived and I’m back and ready for some commentary.
I just have to touch on the subject of dating because it has been weighing on my soul for some time now. Throughout our lifetime, we would have experienced dating at least once. There are two different types of daters out here in this world…the ones that date one person at a time and those that date multiple people at a time. I would consider myself one of those that dates one person at a time but I’ve tried the opposite and found that I don’t have the time or patience to try and figure out about three people at one time while going to school, working, eating and breathing. It’s already hard enough to not get mad at one foolish dude, but to put up with two or more of them is just packing on unnecessary stress. I don’t consider myself as an ordinary male, meaning, I think more like a female. Ladies, I really understand what y’all mean when you say these boys are stupid. Common sense and common courtesy are two things these men fail to grasp the concept of. What happened to the ones that open doors for you, pull out your chair for you, and rub your feet for you? See me, I’ll stand at a closed door until you open it for me but if I stand there for more than twenty seconds then boy you not the one for me…one hundred.
Another thing about dating, watch out very closely for the crazy ones! I’ve run across a crazy guy before but he wasn’t that bad. The main thing that got on my nerves was the clinginess. Like sir, you saw me a whole day ago and you over here talking about you’re missing me. Excuse me, I’m going to need you to bring it down about three notches because we’re on two totally different levels right now.
Something else that grinds my gears: do not call me “bae” if we’ve been talking for less than a month and especially if I’m not showing the same amount of interest you are. Real feelings for someone take time to develop so I don’t understand how a guy could be calling me bae after a week and a half. Sir, what’s my middle name? What’s my favorite color? How old is my dog? What color socks do I wear everyday? All I’m saying is get to know these people before you start claiming them cause you’re also claiming the things you don’t know about them as well.
One last thing then I’ll leave you all alone for the day…it is never ok to string somebody along knowing that you two will never become an item. Stop the BS and let them know what’s good. If you don’t, by the end of your game of shenanigans, another person has now experienced yet another broken heart that could effect them for the rest of their lives. It’s better to practice letting go now than having to learn it the hard way. Some people aren’t mentally stable to deal with broken hearts and something you think is so miniscule can turn around and change as person’s life forever. #TheirFeelingsMatterToo