Interracial dating is a topic that has been buzzing more than ever as society pulls away from unequal treatment due to race. These interracial relationships have been a major topic in the black community.
I feel that black men and women should only be with each other. Successful black men choosing to marry outside of their race has become a problem among a lot of black women. This preference stems from the negative stereotypes that society placed on our women; like being rude, non-supporting, and selfish. Some black men choose a mate outside of his race in hopes of having a healthier relationship. This leaves our women feeling betrayed, and unappreciated. But, some of these same women are the ones that encourage black women dating non-black men because, “black men do it.” Also, they believe the stereotypes that society placed on black men. The logic behind this kind of thinking is why the black household has been systematically destroyed. Society brainwashed us to hate each other, and to see dating outside our race as a symbol of status.I’m personally against interracial dating. I feel like black people should teach our own to stay within.
Black women are the most brilliant, resilient women on the planet. They’re the most beautiful, and have best physiques. Black men are obviously more dominant than others. We’re genetically, and spiritually superior. This is why we’re a high commodity. In nature, the alpha male is always the most desired, because he’s the strongest. He’s naturally the leader of the pack. The black man is the alpha male.
I feel that black men and women understand each other the most because we have struggled together through slavery, the civil right movement, etc. The black family can’t be defeated. This is why it had to be broken up in the 60s, when feminism began to replace “familyism” amongst our community.
Issues have to be fixed within our own community before we intermingle with others. Members of the non-black community wouldn’t be interested in fixing those problems. Their loyalty lies with their community.
It’s also important that black people keep the wealth within our communities, rather than having our money touched by foreigners who don’t share the same problems as us. Keeping money in the family is how to stay on top. This is why white people encourage to marry within, even if it means to with a close relative. They maintain power through the family.
It’s disrespectful that there are black men who choose white women over their own, when Emmett Till was brutally murdered for allegedly whistling at a white woman. And, it’s sickening for a black woman to prefer a white mate when white slave owners used to beat, and rape them. We always remember slavery, but somehow forget how those same people we want now treated us.
Black men and women are attacked, because they recognize our value. We are constantly mistreated, so we must come together to overcome what society has painted us to be. No matter what we accomplished, we’ll always be viewed as the bottom of the barrel. We need to struggle, and come up together. Marrying outside of your race doesn’t exclude you from being subject to racism. Keep it black on black love, because black love is the most powerful love.
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February 12, 2019
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