Relationships 200 Honors: The truth is more than overrated

I’ve always known I was an innovator, hell, I’m a freaking pioneer. When it comes to stirring up controversy, I really excel high. I’m known as the antithesis, but I always feel a sudden sense of pride when I persuade “intellectuals” into engaging into it. Kind of like a playwright watches a director turn his script into a multimillion dollar movie. But just like the movies, if it’s a good screenplay, a sequel is needed.
Somewhere lost in translation was the whole point of what I said, but instead of going back and reiterating the main points, I’m going to give the class the homework of catching up. If you made it to this class, then that means you are advancing. As the professor, I will not lie to you, but have so many expectations. As bias as my class may seem, hey, I do represent the man’s perspective, and it’s also what I know best. And what I know is that women are more deceitful than men.
Women like to complain about the dishonesty of men all the time. I’m sure everyone has heard the generalization, “If a man isn’t lying, he’s not talking”. Hmm, ever looked at the character of these women? I could make several generalizations such as these are the women who proudly gossip on so many topics, and we all know what the root of gossip is. These are the women that have so much to say about another person to someone else, but not mature enough to approach the person they have a problem with. And these are the women that have excess baggage when coming to the table.
Let’s take another approach. Let’s describe another type of woman. This is the woman that sits and cries to you another sad love song. She’s been hurt in the past, abused, cheated on, lied to, the total works. In all how trials and tribulations, she begs to have something more secure, something sincere, and something worthwhile. The more you listen to her, the more you pity her situation, and the more you want to make things right. But as a man, especially at Southern University, your resume isn’t exactly clear, in fact, you have a surplus of references. Because of that, constant arguments occur because she wants to swear it’s impossible for you to leave every other girl alone and that you’re just like the other guys. But the underlying truth you later find out: she has a boyfriend, and a roster of “toys” who she switches from bench player to starting lineup.
Everyone says a relationship is maintained through conversation, but let’s be honest, I can have an in depth conversation and never tell the truth once. Conversation, to most women is like a term paper in college: 10 percent your thesis and 90 percent random BS. But at the same time, women are acquiescing into this battered woman syndrome, and love to play the victim, and n the long run, lie as much and probably more than men. Victimization, is the role both guys and girls like to chose to play. Men play the victim because they are not allowed to open up their feelings without being accused of something. Women play the victim in order to conceal their intentions, and in the process they put up an impenetrable fortress that is impossible for anyone but an army of men to get past.
The fact is, honesty truly is the best policy. If both people would be honest, the relationship would go much better. Men, if your intention is to just be physical with the girl, let her know, what you don’t realize is plenty of women are looking for that, and just like you say sweet nothings to get at her, she does the same just to maintain the effort. Women, don’t accuse the man of doing the same thing you are more guilty of. Just cause you are a woman doesn’t mean you can’t be a dog besides. In the long run, the one you are messing over and catch feelings for, when you finally come around, he’ll be long gone and hurt you bad. If honest dialogue does occur, the relationship can build on the right foundation, and what is built correctly cannot be destroyed by no force.